On July 17, 2023, the north nodes change axis. This means that we leave this pluto/venus axis, which for many has been (and is) violent and uncaring. The position of the north nodes means that we intend to look at power relations that come from our family dynamics and which are carried forward into everyday life. Power which in this case is an expression of control and dominance that we exercise towards each other. Basically because each of us has an overflowing baggage of triggers that have not yet been healed. It is a powerful axis, as it is the South Node of the Moon, which is in Scorpio. The North Node of the Moon is in the opposite sign, Taurus.
The axis we switch to is the Aries/Libra axis. The North Node of the Moon must pass through the energy of Aries. Aries’ energy is dynamic and must balance with Libra’s energy, which will find harmony by being out with others. Look in your horoscope where you have your Aries/Libra axis. It is precisely the two houses and possibly associated planets to which you will direct your focus.
All axes can become unbalanced. An imbalance on an axis occurs when we are too much in one sign. An axis seeks to balance between two signs as well as the houses in which the axis appears. Even if there are no planets in the houses.
Relationships – together we are strong
If you take your ascendant. Then you have an opposite sign, which is 180° opposite. It is your descendant. Your descendant is an expression of the energy that you seek in others in order to become whole yourself. Your ascendant is you. It is the energy you send out to others. Both consciously, but also unconsciously. It is the primary impression that others get from you.
The axis with your ascendant and descendant is your relationship axis. The axis of your relationship. If you want to know about your partner’s energy, then you need to find out which sign your descendant is in. This is the energy you need to attract. Let’s assume your ascendant is Libra. This means that your descendant is an Aries. You need to attract someone who expresses his Aries energy in order for your ascendant to be positively expressed. You will be whole together. That doesn’t mean you have to find an Aries. It could easily be another zodiac sign that comes with the Aries energy.
The balanced Aries energy is energetic, impulsive, enterprising and courageous. And this is exactly what a Libra Ascendant needs to draw home to himself. It is the unconscious sides of the scale that are projected onto a partner. Libra can choose to be irritated by this energy, because it is far from what Libra stands for (cooperation and diplomacy), but the meaning in a relationship is that we must balance each other’s energies. Then it is an equal relationship.
The unbalanced energy of Aries expresses a strong temper, arrogance, impatience and aggressiveness. It’s definitely not something that scales like. After all, Libra wants to cooperate and share. It can cause Libra to cultivate its own unbalanced sides such as indecisiveness and self-pity.
Love is a promise of honesty & care
The art of balancing between axes is to spot the projections. What you see in your partner is also your own. A projection is what you need to take in yourself. With the ascendant in Libra, it is precisely this energy of action and the more selfish energy that you must integrate within yourself.
Creating a long-lasting relationship is an art. But if there is a promise of honesty and care, then there will also be an opportunity for joint development, forgiveness, patience and trust. It’s the start of a good match. Your partner may have needs that may hurt you. If you are triggered inside by your partner’s needs, then you are triggered by something you have experienced in the past. It has nothing to do with your partner. It doesn’t have to mean you have to leave because your partner hurts you. But this means that you are unconsciously made aware that you have an unbalanced trauma inside you that needs extra attention. You have to work with your trauma yourself.
A long way down the road, I can see through your data which type of partner is best for you. Here I use your placement of sun, moon, mercury, venus and mars. I use your radix aspects but also your axes ASC/DSC & MC/IC. When I have a pair reading (both data) I also use degree placements as well as the lunar nodes. Furthermore, I see where the “frictions” arise and where the couple can work positively with each other. I use pluto to define the power struggles from which we come – and which we ourselves carry on in our relationships. We are attracted and we are triggered. And one thing to remember:
At every meeting, there is a message – there are no coincidences!
In the hands it is a little different. I use the adjacent lines that hit the fate line. They indicate new conditions. At the same time, I look in the heart line to see how it looks. Of course in the same time period as on the fate line. There are relationship lines in palmistry. I have no good experience with them fitting.
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